Two people can love each other
and still have no idea
how the other one reaches.
One goes quiet to understand
and the other needs closeness to understand,
and each reads the other's way of coping
as the withdrawal of love.
TENDERSHIP is the whole architecture of that.
How Two People Reach
Your Sphere. Your Tendrils. The Map. The Docking.
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One
Sphere
who you are in love
Who you are in love, your emotional world, the way you move through it and the way you want to be met.
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Two
Tendrils
the living threads
The living threads by which you reach, soften, hold, stay connected while apart, and come back.
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Three
Tendril Map
laid over each other
Two people's threads laid over each other: where they meet, where they differ beautifully, where they differ difficultly, where they nourish, where they stretch and where they tangle.
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Four
Docking
the coming together
Connection, syncing, arriving in strength. Never conflict resolution, never correction, never a repair protocol.
Written By You, For Them
The Partner Guide
The instruction manual for one person's heart, written by that person.
It Stands Entirely On Its Own
And it weaves through Language of Love, AISHITERU, MY FAMILIA, DEVOCIUM, The Worshipped Woman and LA PASSION — wherever two people are being held.
How the other one reaches.
The tender stewardship of the heart.